It is commonly said that
love is never having to say you’re sorry,
and never having to apologize.
It has been said, therefore,
that in this regard, love is perfect
and as it belongs to a twosome,
it is twice perfect.
But the risk of love
without forgiveness or repentance,
is that it could turn rigid and selfish.
It’s the kind of love,
where forgiveness
is replaced by
obfuscation and solitary reprimands.
It’s the kind of love,
where repentance
is replaced by wounded self-esteem,
and offended egos and pride.
To the contrary,
love is to know how to forgive
those that we love.
Forgiving one another,
we also forgive us.
Love between two people works,
only if the couple,
acts in unison on everything,
so when one fails, both fail,
or maybe,
the one that has failed,
is the other.
Love is to be sorry together.
Love is absent of
pride, selfishness
forbidden or sacred places.
What matters in love is
what one feels for one another.
In love,
it does not matter
if there is a gesture or not,
but only if whatever takes place
it is done with our hearts.
Love is not arrogant.
Love is humble.
When in love,
complaints are ill-fitted,
punishment creates opaqueness,
pride stains,
selfishness hurts,
and punishment kills.
When there is love,
the offense is born,
with its own pardon,
attached to it.
Remorse is always done
by both lovers, and
it is in this way, that forgiveness
does not exist in love,
because while in love,
it is not necessary
to say I’m sorry,
or to ask for forgiveness.